@Oportunist said in #1:
> the question doesnt need explanation,what are the things that attract women abaut men?
YES great idea a chess dating website now everyone show me your pic
heres mine
www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ @theodorecalexico said in #41:
> YES great idea a chess dating website now everyone show me your pic
> heres mine
well i thought it might be better to show you my dance and my song that i wrote when i was 3 and a half
@theodorecalexico said in #41:
> YES great idea a chess dating website now everyone show me your pic
> heres mine
and the girls in the background they are tots not my wives uhhhhh *looks shifty*
@Oportunist said in #1:
> the question doesnt need explanation,what are the things that attract women abaut men?
i've seen this question so many times in other forums, what y'all need to understand is that one attracts one woman wont necessarily attract another ._.
@tetrafauna said in #32:
> there is always next time, king, never give up.
The "NO" I already have... Not the protective order.
They do like a lot of things. Usually.
Being handsome, intelligent, somewhat tall, in shape, young, single, dedicated, with goals, some money is needed, status, clean, respectful, dominant, with manly features (beard, big body), well endowed, faithful, time to spare and the list goes on.
So for some regular dates, usually you only need a decent combination of 3 or 4 or so at least, fit, decent car, decent money, and decently good looking, brave enough to ask her for a date is usually enough.
But once you get to marriage, usually all comes to money and time, lack of either is the end of the marriage. What usually happens is that because they want money, the dude has to work a lot, making him have less time to spend with her. Conversely, if he spends too much with her, he will have less money because he works less.
In any of those cases, the marriage will fail. So, pick your poison. If you dont work that much, you will be perpetually broke because you will barely be able to pay alimony. If you work a lot and you bring the cash, she will get a lot of alimony and you will still be broke and will have to work a lot.
Yeah, money is essential, it's resources, but if they can stay with a bald rich guy, they will try to be pregnant of a healthy beautiful man, without the bald guy knowing it...
@Oportunist said in #1:
> the question doesnt need explanation,what are the things that attract women abaut men?
Are you trying to get a girlfriend or what?
That being said, I think it's all about the things you do naturally, not the things you do because you're trying to impress someone.
Say, for example, how you treat your parents/elders, how you treat your friends, how you deal with losses, etc.
I don't know about other people but I look a lot at little details. That's how I draw my conclusions about people :)
@weplaychess90 said in #48:
> Yeah, money is essential, it's resources, but if they can stay with a bald rich guy, they will try to be pregnant of a healthy beautiful man, without the bald guy knowing it...
On the other hand, if I marry a bald rich guy, that bald rich guy is likely to have had a long history of love life before me and will be extremely paranoid about me using them for money. Even if I'm not using them for money, what level of success do you think I'll have trying to convince them I'm not?
The way it usually works is they end up with about eight ex-girlfriends. At least, that's how I've seen it work.
To suggest that money is essential is just blatant ignorance of how someone that would actually be a gold digger would think...I think that if I wanted to exploit someone it would make a lot more sense to get someone "middle of the road", no? ;)
